#1 Issue that Divides Marriages is Communication! Read more to see how you can fix the issue.
Couples are TALKING AT EACH OTHER instead of COMMUNICATING WITH EACH OTHER.
5 POWERFUL COMMUNICATION TOOLS:
Your eye contact, voice tone, response communicates whether you care or not.
It’s impossible to communicate with a person that doesn’t care.
Praise is a DISCIPLINE…NOT A FEELING.
You must focus on the things you like.
When our marriages become negative, we close our heart.
Speak the truth IN LOVE.
If you don’t speak truth, Truth will show up in other places…Passive Aggressive Behavior.
You can speak to your husband about your concerns, but then you have to pray and leave it on the alter.
If you don’t believe, you will constantly beat him up with your mouth….nag…complain…change him with your mouth.
5. COMMIT TO KINDNESS:
You have to decide that you are not going to be mean or abusive with your words.
Set limits to what you will say and what you won’t say.
Don’t be abusive, demeaning, demasculating or hit low blows.